The narcissist employs childlike behavior to attract and manipulate others, creating an illusion of vulnerability that elicits protective instincts. This strategy fosters a shared fantasy where both the narcissist and
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the misconception that there are fewer male victims of abuse and trauma. He argues that men are equally as likely to be victims of narcissistic abuse
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses gaslighting by proxy, where third parties are used to manipulate and distort reality to make the victim doubt their perception. He explains three examples: flying monkeys,
Narcissists idealize themselves through the gaze of other people, known as narcissistic supply, and make assumptions about how others perceive them. They react strongly to their assumptions about the gaze
Passive aggression is a pervasive and toxic form of aggression that is difficult to detect and can be very damaging. It is a tool used by weak and envious individuals
Narcissists and psychopaths are facing increasing difficulties in finding victims due to heightened awareness and stigmatization of their behaviors. As victim awareness grows and behaviors associated with narcissistic abuse become
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the conflicted relationship people have with their bodies, which is amplified in narcissism. He explains that both somatic and cerebral narcissists regard their bodies as a
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the reasons why individuals are romantically attracted to narcissists. He explains the differences between sexual and romantic attraction and delves into the psychological processes involved in
The text discusses two recent studies on gender relations and the author’s analysis of them. It also delves into six trends that have led to a growing hostility and conflict
Self-styled experts online exploit victims of narcissistic abuse by pandering to their desire to be seen as blameless victims. They profit from perpetuating victimhood and validating the victims’ feelings. Victims
