Now, historically, women had been traumatized much more than men. It is therefore not a surprise that women, now that they are emancipated and liberated and not controlled and independent and autonomous, now that they can show their true colors without repercussions and without punishment and without retribution and without fear, now that they can be themselves.

Because most women had been subjected to complex trauma, most women today display clear signs of narcissism and psychopathy. Most women are grandiose, entitled, aggressive, defiant, impulsive, contumacious, reckless.

Now, there are varying degrees, of course. Some women take it to extreme and this could be easily diagnosed as borderline personality disorder. They are emotionally dysregulated, their moods are labile, and so on and so forth. Some women are more surreptitious, more subtle, so these women would be a lot more passive-aggressive.

These are the weapons of the weak, to undermine, to sabotage, to stall, to procrastinate, to prevent, to forestall, etc., etc.

But anecdotal evidence and recent studies clearly demonstrate that there’s a tectonic shift, there’s an earthquake in gender roles and that women had adopted a new gender role which is essentially identifiable with narcissistic and psychopathic men.

So now, actually, we have a world which is unigender. There’s a single gender with different genitalia. There’s men, there’s what? I mean, there’s unigender with penises and unigender with vagina. It’s the same gender.

The distinction had been lost and, of course, because the distinction had been lost, a lot of this sexual attractiveness, because gender roles facilitate sexual attraction. They underlie sexual attraction to a large extent.

With the abolition of gender roles and with the creation of gender vertigo, this had a tremendous impact on sexual attractiveness in ways and modes of social interaction.

Moreover, human bodies used to be in the private domain, people undressed in private, people had sex in private, people went to the toilet in private, and so on. They still do, to a large extent.

But bodies, when it comes to sex, bodies are much more in the public domain. People sexting. People are on cums, c-a-m-s. So people go online on cameras, people sext. People keep digital copies of their bodies, naked bodies, forever. These copies are replicated on numerous servers. There’s pornography. There’s never been such an explosion of pornography, free pornography. There’s amateur pornography, verified amateurs. There’s occult pornography. I mean, pornography is all over the place. And for the first time in history, pornography, the majority, the vast majority, the bulk of pornography is actually produced by amateurs and not commercially, not for a fee. Some of them ask for tips, but it’s rare.

So people use cameras when they have sex, and then they upload the images or the footage online. People sext, knowing full well that the sexted images would be kept in galleries and photo folders. People use cums with each other, interactive cums.

So bodies have become public domain.

So another element was taken out of sex.

You see, sexual attractiveness, desire, passion, they critically depend on gender roles. We have abolished this. Sexual attraction, desire and passion critically depend on access, on granting access, on the privacy of the body, on the fact that the body is exclusive. If you gain access to this body, it’s a wow event. It leaves you speechless. It’s something that you so wanted, were so eager and so fervently into it. You know, courting, courting, flirting, they were all about gaining access to someone else’s body and mind, but also body.

When bodies became public domain, when bodies were liberated, so to speak, and became shareable, replicable, duplicated, when bodies became artifacts, works of art in a way, and that includes tattooing and piercing and everything. When bodies became raw material, which you could record and share, we took out another critical element in inter-gender sexual attraction.

Because if your partner’s body is not private, it had been shared with a thousand other men or women, and if your partner is not exactly a man and not exactly a woman and not exactly in between, and God knows what he is or what she is, what’s left? Why would you want to have sex with this thing, which is not a man and not a woman, and whose body had become the public property of everyone? 20% of all couples in the United States are sexless.

The definition of sexlessness is in marriage or in a committed relationship, is having sex fewer than 10 times a year. I believe the figure is much higher.

I would venture to say, anecdotally, it’s speculation, it’s not backed by research. I think half of all people in committed relationships are not having sex. 10 times a year? Are you kidding me? That’s an orgy. These people are not having sex three times a year, once a year. They’re not having sex, end of story. I think half of all couples are actually totally sexless. Another maybe quarter to a third have a very low frequency of sex, hypo sexuality, and maybe just 10% are having regular sex, which is defined as three times a week. Three times a week is a fantasy to the overwhelming vast majority of the population of the world, and among people under age 35, the situation is an unmitigated calamity.

I refer you to my video, Youth Sexlessness. Sex is vanishing, disappearing completely among people younger than 35. The few among them who love sex, who adore sex, who want sex, let alone who are hypersexual or promiscuous, these few, they’re frustrated, they’re distraught, they can’t find partners, they can’t find willing partners.

This leads to an eruption of hookups, casual sex, and dating apps, which essentially provide a stream of casual sex partners. People are having casual sex and hookups, not because they prefer casual sex and hookups.

There’s a tiny, tiny, tiny sliver of minority of people who are afraid of commitment, terrified of intimacy, and so they prefer casual sex as a permanent mode of sexuality or psychosexuality.

But 99% of people, they don’t want hookups, they don’t want casual sex, they don’t want one night stands. Well over 80% of people who had experienced one night stands feel ashamed and guilty afterwards, they feel bad, they feel egodystonic, even among the young.

And 80% of women who have had one night stands report that the sex was disastrously bad, 60% of men do the same. A shocking half of them, half of men, don’t have orgasm in casual sex, and three quarters of women.

So casual sex really sucks, and no one wants it.

But there’s no choice, there’s no other choice, because there are no willing sex partners to be found.

A sizeable proportion of the population had given up on sex and relationships altogether. Five years without sex is very, very common. Many go 10 years without sex.

When I say without sex, I mean without sex, not even casual sex.

So again, people who have a healthy sex drive, let alone hyper sex drive, very strong sex drive, what are they to do? No one wants to have sex anymore.

So they go to bars and they go on Tinder or they go wherever and they pick up. Casual sex partners, total strangers, they assume also serious medical and other risks. It’s reckless behavior, but they’re left with no choice because the sex marketplace had dried up utterly.

It’s the Great Depression.

And so gradually, as sexlessness set in is the new standard, in studies, people, especially young people, clearly prefer numerous other activities to sex.

Video gaming, even watching movies, binge watching movies, drinking, drinking, they prefer these to having sex.

They sound a bit like they’re terrified of sex or even disgusted by sex.

And so sexlessness has become the new normal. That’s the new normal.

Sex is the outlier. Sex is the exception, the bizarre exception sometimes.

And as gender roles have shifted and intermixed and the boundaries between men and women became fuzzy and later vanished, disappeared altogether, as elements of roles, as elements of roles, figments of roles, dimensions and determinants of gender roles began to intermish.

Women became more masculine, more assertive, more aggressive, more defined, more narcissistic, more psychopathic, more grandiose, more sexually assertive, more rapacious. Men became more effeminate, more schizoid, more shy, more avoidant.

I mean, there is something which I call gender reversal.

Gender reversal is a way men had adopted elements of erstwhile female roles and women had become men, erstwhile men.

If you go back to the 1950s, the men of the 1950s, they’re the women of today. And the women of the 1950s, they’re the men of today.

There’s been a gender reversal.

And as gender reversal has set in, men began to adopt feminine behaviors.

For example, a wide array of studies reports that it is men who are sexually avoidant. Men are withholding sex.

This used to be a feminine behavior, an exclusive female behavior until the 1960s.

And now men are the majority of those who are sex averse, sexless, avoid sex, and withhold sex.

Similarly, women prefer what is commonly called better males. There are numerous studies. There are like a mountain of studies, which fly in the face of the miktau incel nonsense.

Women do not prefer alpha males, let alone jerks. Women want better males, submissive, kind, empathic, effeminate, soft, understanding, compliant, collaborative, kind, nice, etc.

Women by far prefer better males. And yes, they prefer better males also for one night stands and casual sex, many studies.

And there are these communities of men, I mentioned miktaus, I mentioned incels, red pillows, and so on and so forth, who, I don’t know where, which planet they came from.

The amount of unadulterated nonsense these so-called men, wannabe men spew out is mind-boggling, let alone toxic and misogynistic. They’re simply wrong. They’re wrong about every single thing they say. Even relatively benign pseudo or quasi-rational gurus such as Jordan Peterson spew unmitigated nonsense left, right, and center and get all their facts wrong.

For example, Peterson keeps saying that men are sensitive to rejection. Actually, numerous studies show that women are far more sensitive to rejection and abandonment and humiliation than men.

Men are accustomed to rejection and take it in stride.

So there’s a problem with counterfactual, essentially conspiracy theories, male-based conspiracy theories. Men are not taking this line down. They are becoming more and more aggressive. Men are testosterone-laden. Men are beginning to regard the situation between men and women as a declaration of war, and they are beginning to fight back. They’re forming militias, online militias. There’s a whole philosophy and a whole ideology behind it.

This is an exceedingly dangerous moment in the history of the species because it might end up very badly.

Women have been pushed back. The pandemic had undone many of the accomplishments of women, especially economic accomplishments, but not only.

I think if we couple this reversal with male anger, male misogyny, male rejection, male hatred, male rage, male panic and fear at losing their exalted superior position, I think that’s a recipe for a civil war between men and women.

And let me tell you something. I’ll let you in on a secret. Women cannot win this. Women cannot win this. They may end up being serfs and slaves once again.

So women are not being wise. Women, women’s in-your-face defiant belligerence is going to provoke men big time, and it’s not going to end well for women because men still control many things, and men are far more aggressive and violent with women.

When it comes to war, men will win. Why initiate one?

And yet women are pushing in this direction, clearly, in a variety of ways.

And men’s patience, even rational, reasonable, better men, their patience is at an end.

At this stage, when you observe typical interactions between men and women, men prefer just to talk. They just want to talk.

Men flee the scene, run away terrified at the first sign of assertive sexual advances by a woman.

There’s a lot of braggadaccio. There’s a lot of macho posturing. There’s a lot of, you know, but when push comes to shove, when the signal is giving, here I am, all yours, open in every possible way.

Men flee the scene in a majority of cases because they’re terrified. They’re terrified of sex. Men are terrified of sex because they perceive women as judgmental. They perceive women as aggressive, as defiant, psychopathic, or they perceive women as insane, emotionally dysregulated, mood, labile, bitter, dangerous.

Today, to date a woman, as far as a man is concerned, is a serious lifelong risk.

So men, you know, take the calculus and decide that the prize is not worth the price, and they disengage, and they disengage.

Women had become a lot more antisocial. Women had become a lot more men-hating, misandrist.