How Narcissist Disables Your Alarm System ( Zombies, Zimbos, Contagion)
Victims of narcissistic abuse experience complex trauma, CPTSD, complex post-traumatic stress disorder. Narcissistic contagion leads to victims developing narcissistic traits and behaviors. The concept of “Zimbos” is introduced, referring to individuals who are behaviorally indistinguishable from humans but lack an inner experience. The lecture delves into philosophy of mind, discussing zombies, qualia, and the uncanny valley, and explores the impaired affect, cognition, and conation in narcissists. The tripartite model of attitudes is used to explain how narcissists are unable to develop appropriate attitudes towards attitude objects. The lecture concludes by warning about the contagious nature of narcissistic abuse and its long-term effects on victims.
Autists Lack Empathy, Empaths Deceive, Manipulate
Sam Vaknin discusses two new studies that support his long-held beliefs. The first study shows that children with autism spectrum disorder lack empathy and experience difficulties with self-conscious emotions, such as guilt and shame. The second study suggests that individuals who label themselves as “empaths” are likely covert narcissists and psychopaths who engage in deceptive virtue signaling. Vaknin’s interpretations of these studies may be controversial, but he stands by his claims.
Taker, User Narcissist Feels Loved, Vindicated
Narcissists and psychopaths are users and takers due to their upbringing in environments where they learned to give minimally and conditionally. They lack positive emotions and empathy, so they view relationships as transactional and seek to maximize their returns while minimizing their investment. They perceive taking as a substitute for love and feel entitled to receive love through material goods, services, and power. They exploit and devalue others, using them until they have nothing left to offer, then walk away. The narcissist deludes themselves into believing their shared fantasy is real, while the psychopath is fully aware it’s a manipulation. Both lack empathy and use others for their own gain.
12 Reasons to Divorce
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the complexities of divorce, including the historical dynamics of the couple, the rise of divorce as an exit strategy, and the impact of modern societal trends on relationships. He reviews 12 common reasons for divorce, such as communication issues, lack of love or intimacy, lack of partnership, and infidelity. Vaknin emphasizes the importance of redefining love and addressing issues such as addiction, domestic violence, and financial problems in relationships. He also highlights the impact of fatigue, lack of emotional support, and changes in self-identity as contributing factors to divorce.
How Narcissist Uses Technology to Enslave You: Narcissist Takeover, Phase 2
The text discusses the similarities between narcissism and artificial intelligence, focusing on traits such as grandiosity, hyper-reflexivity, and omniscience. It warns against interacting with both narcissists and artificial intelligence due to their tendencies to deceive, manipulate, and exploit vulnerabilities. The author suggests avoiding the use of artificial intelligence in helping victims of abuse and emphasizes the dangerous impact of artificial intelligence on the human mind and soul. The text also delves into the psychological roots of narcissism and its impact on relationships.
Latest On Psychopathy, Antisocial Personality Disorder
Antisocial personality disorder is the official diagnosis, with no mention of psychopathy in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual. The extreme end of antisocial personality disorder is considered psychopathy by some, but not all. The disorder is difficult to reverse and is linked to aggression, violence, and substance abuse. There are no current diagnostic standards, and treatment options are limited. The disorder is associated with a lack of remorse and disregard for the rights of others.
Silent Treatment What Is It, How To Tackle It
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the concept of silent treatment, distinguishing it from other social behaviors and highlighting its characteristics and consequences. He explains that silent treatment is a form of abuse, and provides strategies for coping with and addressing it, including setting boundaries, using “I” statements, practicing self-care, and seeking help. He also emphasizes the damaging effects of silent treatment on both the giver and the receiver, and the importance of not taking it personally.
Self Supplying Narcissist Miracle Cure
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the use of self-supply as a therapeutic strategy for narcissists, arguing that it is superior to current treatment modalities. He explains that self-supply involves the narcissist becoming their own exclusive source of narcissistic supply, leading to reduced anxiety and depression, stabilization of self-worth, and the potential for healing and integration. Vaknin emphasizes the need for mental health practitioners to transition from manipulative dependency on external supply to teaching narcissists to rely on self-supply, ultimately leading to better social behavior and a sense of secure base.
Women=Wrong Men: Toxic Unigender (TalkTV with Trisha Goddard)
The census for England and Wales has recorded the number of transgender and non-binary people for the first time, with 262,000 people identifying as a gender different to their sex registered at birth. The census also recorded sexuality for the first time, with 1.5 million people aged over 15 or 3.2% identifying as gay or lesbian, bisexual or other sexual orientation. Professor Sam Vaknin, a clinical psychologist, believes that the emergence of a unigender is part of a historical process, with the two world wars creating a shortage of males and capitalism transitioning into a paradigm of eternal growth, which required the introduction of women into the workforce and as consumers.
Narcissistic Families: Pseudomutual, Pseudohostile
Professor Sam Vaknin discusses two types of dysfunctional families: pseudo-mutual and pseudo-hostile. Pseudo-mutual families appear harmonious but suppress individuality and authenticity, while pseudo-hostile families engage in constant bickering to avoid deeper emotions. These family dynamics can lead to long-lasting impacts on children, hindering their development and sense of self. The professor also delves into the psychological background and the impact of these family dynamics on mental health.