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1. 00:00 The narcissist has a mother, but the narcissist also has an anti-mother. You see, the narcissist wanders a netherworld. The narcissist is suspended between apotheiois and doom. He is forever in quest of a redeemer, an absolver, a rescuer, an unadulterated savior.
2. 00:30 And this especially applies to male heterosexual narcissists. But all narcissists are like that. Male and female, heterosexual and homosexual. They’re all looking for the perfect flawless partner. In the case of the heterosexual narcissist, the flawless
3. 00:48 woman, the Madona, who will wave the magic wand of her unmitigated and unsullied devotion. This way will actualize the narcissist’s fantasy. But the narcissist is entitled. The fruits of hard labor are common and he is anything but common. He is a
4. 01:12 wondrous being immersed in miracles. So the narcissist woman, his woman, his property, she’s never a true partner. But the narcissist woman is there to smooth his way to stardom with her sizzless toil, influential contacts and monetary wellspring.
5. 01:34 She operates behind the scenes like some kind of Santa Claus with a f of everlasting Christmas presents. But uh above all the narcissist partner, this woman is there to coset, to soothe, to shield the narcissist from foes external and internal. Together the
6. 01:58 crucified narcissist in her lap, a sympala, a mother to share his allwing grief.
7. 02:08 And she bestows on upon the narcissist, bestows upon him some forgiveness, acceptance, absolution and salvation, a second chance infinitely over the promise of ascendance and transcendence to the very source of all supply. She’s an angel, you see. She’s pure, incorporeal,
8. 02:32 sexless, and ethereal, a revelation on his road. When ineluctably she fails to meet these irreconcilable and outlandish expectations, the narcissist bubble universe hissingly deflates. He lashes out at her the way a frustrated toddler assails a withholding
9. 02:55 mother. Her miscarriage of her tasks is now deemed malevolent and she is thus rendered his enemy. He becomes snipingly vengeful and sadistically punitive. And she she withers. She withers in his heat. He sucks her dry until she crumbles dust to dust.
10. 03:23 Having been rejected by his self assigned maternal figure, the narcissist then resorts to an anti-mother. The anti-mother, the the gold digger, the fakal, she, this kind of woman guarantees his self-destruction. He is leveraging her to penalize himself for having yet again
11. 03:45 failed to choose the right mother. With this self-defeating mate selection, the narcissist also assimilates his own perceived spurning and validates it. Since mother is always right and I am always bad, says the narcissist internalized bad object. Of course, the more decrepit,
12. 04:11 the more corrupt, the more decadent, the more evil, the more antisocial, more psychopathic the partner, the more the narcissist feels that he deserves her, that he has reached the inevitable point of his own demise and disintegration and decay. By
13. 04:34 misbehaving, the narcissist upholds his self assigned role of evil rogue in the morality play that is his sole existence. And this dark production is also fantastic, is equally grandio. You see, going down in flames into the twilight of the go the gods, the
14. 04:55 narcissist becomes a martyr betrayed. Having been purified by fire, the narcissist is ready to recommence this ever everlasting neverending cycle. And the narcissist again looks for a maternal figure. Again looks for a redeemer, an absolver, a rescuer, an unadulter unadulterated
15. 05:22 se savior. The narcissist again wants to latch on to the magic and enchantment of this woman who this time will make it all come true, will realize the fantasy and will allow him to live happily ever after without her. Of course.